The minute you finish
reading this piece, some of you will probably spit fire! I may come across as
arrogant and judgmental, but just know I tried to be civilized and
understanding, and my sincere apologies to those I’m about to offend, but at
some point we all need to speak our minds. And yes feel free to educate my
ignorance! ok enough with the preamble now, let's get tucked in.
“Trying to please
everyone is one of the quickest routes to entering the madhouse.” One hell of a
controversial soul once tweeted.
Cliche and exhausting I
know, but we can never deny the truth entwined in it, and so I've decided to
tackle this case piece by piece, starting with religion; our brothers and
sisters.
But before I say
anything, may I ask something? When was the last time you actually prayed in
your room, or did the silent prayer without the world having to know about it?
Today? Last week? Before Face book? Only you would know. Those who have face
book will know what prompted the question (unless your “friends” don’t pray
there, and if they don’t, then they sure deserve a medal), the continuous
“father I need more of you, or I’m sorry for I have sinned” status updates, and
there’s more. Once again, I hope we don’t confuse this with preaching and (or) testimony. Allow me
to explain.
A testimony is what God
(or whatever higher power you believe in) has done for you, all the wonders and
beauty, including your trials just to be where you are today. Something for the
world to know what an amazing God he is, so they might consider converting
themselves to Christianity. There’s actually more to this than to what I’ve
said. And I might not be saying it well, but at least it’s just a snap shot to
what I know, just to differentiate the two. You can also click here for more on Testimony (and please be
open minded when reading the definition):
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/testimony
But let’s not waste
time on that. Moving right along; I don’t know how many times I’ve actually set
down and tortured my brains trying to understand this. It may appear as cute to
some, and important as well, but let’s be honest here, and stop beating around
the bush. Now I ask, when you pray on face book, are you still praying to your
God, or seeking “likes” from your dearest “friends”? And if it’s a
prayer between you and your God/gods, then what are we to do with it unless you
want our approval? Can’t you keep it to yourself, and pray to your God and
not to the world? Maybe I’m obsolete I don’t know, but I’m well flummoxed here,
and yes I’m well aware of the question face book imposes: “what’s on your
mind”, and that you post what you like, I know. And again, I won’t deny how
amazing some of the prayers are, they are very constructive and informative,
and the truth is I love some of them.
But what baffles me
here (and which brings me to my point) is what this has done to our minds, that
if you don’t post religious updates, you’re being led astray (wherever you
are). Believe me, it has happened to me. A certain someone I happen to know
gave me a leg after my continuous “general” updates. Fortunately I was kind
enough to tell him to kindly go face the wall, but then that’s not the case
here. However I couldn’t help but wonder: Should I post to impress? Should I
post to maintain my reputation now? Whose rule is it, and why? People often
forget that reputation doesn’t necessary determine who you are, your character
is who you are, and that is something you should be concerned about, not
reputation. And something that your God is concerned about too. I believe I
stand correct there.
I’ve seen some people
feeling particularly crummy after logging onto the site and scrolling through
others' “attractive” chipper status updates. And I don’t know whether to blame
the site, or the users, but this has proved to have a special power to make us
sadder and lonelier which is actually sad: by showcasing the most witty,
joyful, bullet-pointed versions of people's lives, and inviting constant
comparisons in which we tend to see ourselves as the losers while some lead
perfect lives. If we only wanted to be happy it would be easy; but we want to
be happier, and in this case we can say holier than other people. It’s like
being in a play, you just make a character. Such hypocrisy! but for how long do
we have to keep up with this may I ask? I know we express ourselves in
different ways and it is in different ways that the Lord speaks to us, but who
are you trying to convince?
“If you’ve spoken to
Him, then why would you turn & speak to others? Are they your providers or
is YOUR God YOUR provider?” said Pastor Jide from Livewire church on the 12th
08 service! (I'll let you and your mind have a conversation on that one).
If only people could
refrain from putting this holier than thou persona on here, especially on
Sundays! I keep thinking!
I’d go to dating, but
hey let me stop before some of you start taking the batteries out of the sky
remote. And anyway, I hate playing Deputy Jesus over people’s lives. Who am I
to stop you from telling us about your dreams and what you need God to do in
your life, and who you’ve helped where and why? Let me not stop you, go on and
bless us with your prayers, and excuse my ignorance. Light and Peace to ALL!